Articles Janet Kira Lessin

The Elephant in the Room


My husband and I are authors, researchers and investigators. We have interviewed thousands of people on the Aquarian Radio Network and work with diverse groups of people at our conferences and events.  Oft times we find ourselves in situations where we are asked to choose a reality, explain “the truth” , pick sides and determine what is “the truth” for everyone (which is impossible).  In research, especially in UFOlogy and politics, the terms, “fake news” and “fraud” are thrown around like spears and arrows.  From my research and the long life I have lived, I find that there’s no “the truth”, especially when looking at religions, beliefs, history or “facts”. 

Life is more like the elephant and the blind men fable.  When we opens our minds we realize that most of life involves perspectives rather than absolutes which cannot stand up to the tests of time. When we can relax, observe, listen and open our minds, we avoid missing important information and ideas that that leads to “a truth” that works best everyone.  We seek the “win-for-all’ and the common good of humanity, the world and all species.


From: (

Once upon a time, there lived six blind men in a village. One day the villagers told them, “Hey, there is an elephant in the village today.”

They had no idea what an elephant is. They decided, “Even though we would not be able to see it, let us go and feel it anyway.” All of them went where the elephant was. Every one of them touched the elephant.

“Hey, the elephant is a pillar,” said the first man who touched his leg.

“Oh, no! it is like a rope,” said the second man who touched the tail.

“Oh, no! it is like a thick branch of a tree,” said the third man who touched the trunkof the elephant.

“It is like a big hand fan,” said the fourth man who touched the ear of the elephant.

“It is like a huge wall,” said the fifth man who touched the belly of the elephant.

“It is like a solid pipe,” Said the sixth man who touched the tusk of the elephant.

They began to argue about the elephant and every one of them insisted that he was right. It looked like they were getting agitated. A wise man was passing by and he saw this. He stopped and asked them, “What is the matter?” They said, “We cannot agree to what the elephant is like.” Each one of them told what he thought the elephant was like. The wise man calmly explained to them, “All of you are right. The reason every one of you is telling it differently because each one of you touched the different part of the elephant. So, actually the elephant has all those features what you all said.”

“Oh!” everyone said. There was no more fight. They felt happy that they were all right.

The moral of the story is that there may be some truth to what someone says. Sometimes we can see that truth and sometimes not because they may have different perspective which we may not agree too. So, rather than arguing like the blind men, we should say, “Maybe you have your reasons.” This way we don’t get in arguments.

There are five major elephants of the apocalypse. 

  1. Poverty
  2. Misogyny
  3. Racism/Bigotry/Prejudice
  4. Programming
  5. The American Lie


Poverty is not having enough material possessions or income for a person’s needs. Poverty may include social, economic, and political elements. Absolute poverty is the complete lack of the means necessary to meet basic personal needs, such as food, clothing and shelter. Wikipedia

Humans are cruel, insensitive, lack empathy, blame the victims when poverty is the responsibility of our society.  Extraterrestrials look at how humans regard one another and feel shock and horror at how we treat one another. 


Misogyny is the hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women or girls. Misogyny manifests in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, disenfranchisement of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification. Wikipedia

From Psychology Today:

In most cases, misogynists do not even know that they hate women. Misogyny is typically an unconscious hatred that men form early in life, often as a result of a trauma involving a female figure they trusted. An abusive or negligent mother, sister, teacher or girlfriend can plant a seed deep down in their brain’s subcortical matter.

Once planted, this seed will germinate and begin to grow, the tiny root working its way into the fear processing and memory areas of the brain as its tiny stem works its way into frontal areas of the brain, affecting emotion and rational decision-making.

The first signs of misogyny are barely noticeable, but with additional exposure to neglect, abuse, or lack of treatment, this behavioral seeding will grow larger and more prominent. But even when the misogyny reaches maturity and the tendency toward acting with hatred toward women can no longer be controlled, the misogynist and the women around him will often fail to notice the condition until it’s too late.

Hatred between the sexes is perhaps the worst aspect of humanity.  We contain within each and every one of us our own personal inner masculine and feminine aspects.  Hatred of the sexes is self- hatred and self-loathing, shows how unconscious and disconnected humanity is from Source.  Balance between male and female creates internal and external harmony.  Balanced species never war.  Humanity’s out of balance.


Ignored, overlooked, forgotten, shoved under the rug, pushed into the corner, the racism elephant continually raises its ugly head and threatens to overwhelm humanity and any semblance of progress humanity has made over the past centuries.   Despite how much we breed, marry and mate, the reasons for separation often outweighs logic and understanding and the realization underneath it all that we’re all one race—the human race.  We envision a world where we all love one another and live in peace and harmony as one. 

But just when we’re unifying, divisive people like Hitler and Trump find reasons to separate and hate and popularize it.  Why does it take root and stick, grow, and become the massive elephant it is and always has been?  Bottom line, the only reason haters succeed in polarizing the planet is because they activate and resonate with the parts deep down within us that feels divisive and separate despite many possessing mixed bloodlines and racial diversity. No wonder we’re crazy.  Many people hate parts of themselves and their families, those with whom they are dependent or love. 


Programming begins in the womb, accelerates in earnest at birth and continues throughout our lives. It may even continue after death. Who really knows?  We are subjected to religious programming, cultural conditioning, patriotism, music, television, internet, subliminals, rays, radiation, media, cell phone towers, chemtrails, etc. all designed to mold and meld us by the powers that be, subject to their will, defined by their agenda which is hidden from the public.  Humans are so programmed, they have no idea who they really are.

They’re so reactive to others and external stimuli, they lack a center, are unconscious most of their lives, and just when they begin to figure it out, they grow old (if they’re lucky enough to live that long), get sick, and eventually, die. Meanwhile, our governments repress technologies that could allow every human and all beings to live in a utopia. No one need ever starve, live out on the streets, suffer diseases (including the disease of aging), or suffer death and separation from those will love.  Someday we will wake up and break out of this programming. It’s inevitable.  But who are the puppet masters and why can’t they love us enough to allow us to grow up, wake up and become who we truly are?


Only the top 1% live the American dream, the illusion that we can rise from rags to riches. One can only rise if they play ball, sell their souls, compromise values and integrity.  Slavery was supposed to have ended in the 1860s, but today Americans are corporate/economic slaves who live from paycheck to paycheck and are one emergency shy of economic disaster or even bankruptcy.  The unconscious, evil “Illuminati” pay little to no taxes while paying very little.  Most humans do not have a living wage, a basic income upon which they can reasonably exist, pay bills, keep the lights on and ward off starvation and hunger. 

Elections are flawed at best, easily hijacked and manipulated.  Democracy doesn’t really work, allows the various factors to over-ride free will, human rights and systems that allow everyone a bit of dignity.  Homeless people line our streets, live under bridges and defacate and urinate on our sidewalks. We complained about third world countries for centuries, thumbing our noses down them while waving our flags. Now we’ve become a third world country, demonizing immigrants and caging them, not welcoming them.  Politicians attempt to rewrite Liberty’s words, narrowing the field to the educated and wealthy. 

Our president’s gone crazy, rolling back pollution laws and opening up our few and prescious forests and natural resources to fossil fuel rapists.  Hopefully by the time you read this, humanity has awakened more fully and replace these antiquated systems with systems of equality, love, kindness, compassion and empathy for humanity.  Hopefully the American nightmare has ended and we are living from the American dream illusion.


Economic mobility is Economic mobility is a myth, whatever the presidential candidates say

Politicians promote the idea that hard work can carry you anywhere. But the American dream is just that — a figment of our collective imagination.

You may also like...