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MARY BOLEYN ~ 13th GGM ~ 1499-1543 ~ House of Boleyn

Mary Boleyn (the sister of Anne Boleyn. Anne was the wife of Henry VIII and mother of Elizabeth I), was my 13th great-grandmother. I’ve found numerous royals while researching my ancestry. It seems like that might be a big deal, but Mary Boleyn has thousands of descendants. While Henry VIII was the mighty king and Mary was just a mistress, she is the one who survived genetically while Henry’s legitimate line died off.

Henry may have thousands of descendants as well through his bastard line. Henry and Mary may have had at least one, perhaps two illegitimate children together. Henry only formally acknowledged one of his children. With genetic tests, we may know more over time. For now, I’m enjoying my research and will report to this website and you who follow when I find more interesting characters. I highly recommend you do your own family story. I’ve managed to go back to the 1300s on a few branches. I know my line goes back to Charlemagne. I have to take the time to link it up through the ancestors.

I’m enjoying the journey, reconnecting with all the thousands of people in my tree, all related to me and many with whom I share DNA. We truly are far more connected than we are separated. There’s a deep, profound, spiritual understanding in taking the time to honor thy ancestors. I’m very psychic and they speak to me. They join with me, support me, tarry with me as I enjoy my life and they enjoy their existence wherever they may be in time and space.

Mary Boleyn

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Mary Boleyn
Portrait of Mary Boleyn
Bornc. 1499
Blickling HallNorfolk
Died19 July 1543 (aged 43–44)
Noble familyBoleyn
Spouse(s)William Carey, of Aldenham
William Stafford, of Chebsey
IssueCatherine Carey, Lady Knollys
Henry Carey, 1st Baron Hunsdon
Anne Stafford
Edward Stafford
FatherThomas Boleyn, 1st Earl of Wiltshire
MotherLady Elizabeth Howard

Mary Boleyn, also known as Lady Mary[1] (c. 1499[2] – 19 July 1543), was the sister of English queen consort Anne Boleyn, whose family enjoyed considerable influence during the reign of King Henry VIII.

Mary was one of the mistresses of Henry VIII for an unknown period of time. It has been rumoured that she bore two of the king’s children, though Henry did not acknowledge either of them as he had acknowledged Henry FitzRoy, his son by another mistress, Elizabeth Blount. Mary was also rumoured to have been a mistress of Henry VIII’s rival, King Francis I of France, for some period between 1515 and 1519.[3]

Mary Boleyn was married twice: in 1520 to William Carey, and again, secretly, in 1534, to William Stafford, a soldier from a good family but with few prospects. This secret marriage to a man considered beneath her station angered both King Henry VIII and her sister, Queen Anne, and resulted in Mary’s banishment from the royal court. She died seven years later, having spent the remainder of her life in obscurity.

Are there any Boleyns today?

Yes, there are. A descendant of Mary Boleyn sits on the throne of the United Kingdom. There are also some descendants who spell their last name Bullen now — one of them pays for flowers to be delivered to Anne Boleyn’s grave every May 19th.

Queen Elizabeth’s descent from Mary Boleyn:

Mary Boleyn was the mother of Katherine Carey. Katherine was the mother of Lettice Knollys. Lettice was the mother of Robert Deveraux. Robert was the father of Frances Devereux. Frances was the mother of Jane Seymour. Jane was the mother of Charles Boyle. Charles was the father of Richard Boyle. Richard was the father of Charlotte Elizabeth Boyle. Charlotte was the mother of Dorothy Cavendish. Dorothy was the mother of Charles Bentinck. Charles was the father of Charles Bentinck-Cavendish. Charles was the father of Cecilia Nina Cavendish-Bentinck. Celia was the mother of Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon… who was the mother of Queen Elizabeth II.

Princess Diana was also descended from Mary Boleyn, so that makes Princes William and Harry doubly descended from Anne Boleyn’s sister.



Early life

Mary was probably born at Blickling Hall, the family seat in Norfolk, and grew up at Hever CastleKent.[4] She was the daughter of a rich diplomat and courtierThomas Boleyn, 1st Earl of Wiltshire, by his marriage to Lady Elizabeth Howard, the eldest daughter of Thomas Howard, 2nd Duke of Norfolk.

There is no evidence of Mary’s exact date of birth, but it occurred sometime between 1499 and 1508. Most historians suggest that she was the eldest of the three surviving Boleyn children.[5] Evidence suggests that the Boleyn family treated Mary as the eldest child; in 1597, her grandson Lord Hunsdon claimed the earldom of Ormond on the grounds that he was the Boleyns’ legitimate heir. Many ancient peerages can descend through female heirs, in the absence of an immediate male heir. If Anne had been the elder sister, the better claim to the title would have belonged to her daughter, Queen Elizabeth I. However, it appears that Queen Elizabeth offered Mary’s son, Henry, the earldom as he was dying, although he declined it. If Mary had been the eldest Boleyn sister, Henry would, indeed, have the better claim to the title, regardless of a new grant from the queen.[6] There is more evidence to suggest that Mary was older than Anne. She was married first, on 4 February 1520;[7] an elder daughter was traditionally married before her younger sister. Moreover, in 1532, when Anne was created Marchioness of Pembroke, she was referred to as “one of the daughters of Thomas Boleyn”. Were she the eldest, that status would probably have been mentioned. Overall, most historians now accept Mary as being the eldest child, placing her birth some time in 1499.[8]

During her early years, it is most likely that Mary was educated alongside her brother George, and her sister, Anne at Hever Castle in Kent. She was given a conventional education deemed essential for young ladies of her rank and status, which included the basic principles of arithmetic, grammar, history, reading, spelling, and writing. In addition to her family genealogy, Mary learned the feminine accomplishments of dancing, embroidery, etiquette, household management, music, needlework, and singing, and games such as cards and chess. She was also taught archery, falconry, riding, and hunting.[9]

Mary remained in England for most of her childhood, until she was sent abroad in 1514 around the age of fifteen when her father secured her a place as maid-of-honour to the King’s sister, Princess Mary, who was going to Paris to marry King Louis XII of France.

After a few weeks, many of the Queen’s English maids were sent away, but Mary was allowed to stay, probably due to the fact that her father was the new English ambassador to France. Even when Queen Mary left France after she was widowed on 1 January 1515, Mary remained behind at the court of Louis’s son-in-law and daughter, Francis I and Claude.[citation needed]


Royal affair in France

Mary was joined in Paris by her father, Sir Thomas, and her sister, Anne, who had been studying in France for the previous year. During this time Mary is supposed to have embarked on sexual affairs, including one with King Francis himself. Although most historians believe that the reports of her sexual affairs are exaggerated, the French king referred to her as “The English Mare”, “my hackney”,[10] and as “una grandissima ribalda, infame sopra tutte” (“a very great whore, the most infamous of all”).[11][12]

She returned to England in 1519, where she was appointed a maid-of-honour to Catherine of Aragon, the queen consort of Henry VIII.[13] Mary was reportedly considered to be a great beauty, both at the French and English court.

Royal mistress

Signature of Mary Boleyn as “Mary Carey” after her marriage to William Carey

Soon after her return, Mary was married to William Carey, a wealthy and influential courtier, on 4 February 1520; Henry VIII was a guest at the couple’s wedding. At some point, Mary became Henry’s mistress; the starting date and duration of the liaison are unknown.

It was rumoured that one or both of Mary’s children were fathered by the King,[14] although no evidence exists to support the argument that either of them was the King’s biological child.

Henry VIII’s wife, Catherine of Aragon, had first been married to Henry’s elder brother Arthur when he was a little over fifteen years old, but Arthur had died just a few months later. Henry later used this to justify the annulment of his marriage to Catherine, arguing that her marriage to Arthur had created an affinity between Henry and Catherine; as his brother’s wife, under canon law she became his sister. In 1527, during his initial attempts to obtain a papal annulment of his marriage to Catherine, Henry also requested a dispensation to marry Anne, the sister of his former mistress.[15]

Sister’s rise to power

Anne had returned to England in January 1522; she soon joined the royal court as one of Queen Catherine’s maids-of-honour. Anne achieved considerable popularity at court, although the sisters already moved in different circles and were not thought to have been particularly close.

Although Mary was said to have been more attractive than her sister, Anne seems to have been more ambitious and intelligent. When the king took an interest in Anne, she refused to become his mistress.[16] By the middle of 1526, Henry was determined to marry her. This gave him further incentive to seek the annulment of his marriage to Catherine of Aragon. When Mary’s husband died during an outbreak of sweating sickness, Henry granted Anne Boleyn the wardship of her nephew, Henry Carey. Mary’s husband had left her with considerable debts, and Anne arranged for her nephew to be educated at a respectable Cistercian monastery. Anne also interceded to secure her widowed sister an annual pension of £100.[17]

Second marriage

In 1532, when Anne accompanied Henry to the English Pale of Calais on his way to a state visit to France, Mary was one of her companions. Anne was crowned queen on 1 June 1533 and on 7 September gave birth to Henry’s daughter Elizabeth, who later became Queen Elizabeth I. In 1534, Mary secretly married an Essex landowner’s younger son: William Stafford (later Sir William Stafford). Since Stafford was a soldier, his prospects as a second son so slight, and his income so small, many believed the union was a love match. When Mary became pregnant, the marriage was discovered. Queen Anne was furious, and the Boleyn family disowned Mary. The couple were banished from court.

Mary’s financial circumstances became so desperate that she was reduced to begging the king’s adviser Thomas Cromwell to speak to Henry and Anne on her behalf. She admitted that she might have chosen “a greater man of birth” but never one that should have loved her so well, nor a more honest man. And she went on, “I had rather beg my bread with him than to be the greatest queen in Christendom. And I believe verily … he would not forsake me to be a king”. Henry, however, seems to have been indifferent to her plight. Mary asked Cromwell to speak to her father, her uncle, and her brother, but to no avail. It was Anne who relented, sending Mary a magnificent golden cup and some money, but still refused to reinstate her position at court. This partial reconciliation was the closest the two sisters attained; it is not thought that they met after Mary’s exile from the king’s court.

Mary’s life between 1534 and her sister’s execution on 19 May 1536 is difficult to trace. There is no record of her visiting her parents, and no evidence of any correspondence with, or visits to, her sister Anne or her brother George when they were imprisoned in the Tower of London.

Mary died of unknown causes, on 19 July 1543, in her early forties.


Mary Boleyn was the mother of:

Mary’s marriage to William Stafford (d. 5 May 1556) may have resulted in the birth of two further children:[18]

  • Edward Stafford (1535–1545).
  • Anne Stafford (b. 1536?–?), possibly named in honour of Mary’s sister, Queen Anne Boleyn.

Depictions in fiction

Mary is featured in the following novels:

Mary has been the central character in three novels based on her life:

Philippa Gregory later nominated Mary as her personal heroine in an interview to the BBC History magazine. Her novel was a bestseller and spawned five other books in the same series. However, it was controversial, since many historians found the work inaccurate in regards to historical events and individual characterizations.[10] For example, Gregory characterizes Anne, not Mary, as the elder sister, and makes no mention of Mary’s relationships prior to her affair with Henry.[10][19]

Mary is a character in several films and television series:


Mary is also a subject in three non-fiction books:

  • Mary Boleyn: The Mistress of Kings by Alison Weir (2011)
  • The Mistresses of Henry VIII by Kelly Hart (2009)
  • Mary Boleyn: The True Story of Henry VIII’s Mistress by Josephine Wilkinson (2010)[20]

Family tree

Thomas Boleyn, 1st Earl of WiltshireElizabeth Howard
Mary BoleynAnne BoleynHenry VIII of England
Catherine CareyHenry Carey, 1st Baron HunsdonElizabeth I of EnglandMary I of EnglandEdward VI of England
Catherine Carey


  1. ^ “Katherine Knollys”Westminster Abbey – Founded 960. The Dean and Chapter of Westminster. Retrieved 2 June 2016. Katherine Knollys’ tombstone in Westminster Abbey reads thus: “This Lady Knollys and the Lord Hundesdon her brother were the childeren of William Caree Esquyer, and of the Lady Mary his wiffe one of the doughters and heires to Thomas Bulleyne Erle of Wylshier [Wiltshire] and Ormond. Which Lady Mary was sister to Anne Quene of England wiffe to Kinge Henry the Eyght father and mother to Elizabeth Quene of England”.
  2. ^ Antonia Fraser, The Wives of Henry VIII (Alfred A. Knopf, New York, 1992), p. 119
  3. ^ Letters and Papers of the Reign of Henry VIII, X, no.450.
  4. ^ Letters of Matthew Parker, p.15.
  5. ^ Ives, p. 17; Fraser, p. 119; Denny, p. 27. All three scholars argue that Mary was the eldest of the three Boleyn children.
  6. ^ Hart, Kelly (1 June 2009). The Mistresses of Henry VIII(First ed.). The History Press. ISBN 978-0-7524-4835-0.
  7. ^ The Life and Death of Anne Boleyn: The Most Happy by Eric Ives
  8. ^ Antonia Fraser, The Wives of Henry VIII (Alfred A. Knopf, New York, 1992), p. 119
  9. ^ Wilkinson, Josephine (2009). “The Early years, 1500–1514”Mary Boleyn: The True Story of Henry VIII’s Mistress. Amberley. p. 13. ISBN 9781848680890.
  10. Jump up to:a b c von Tunzelmann, Alex (6 August 2008). “The Other Boleyn Girl: Hollyoaks in fancy dress”The Guardian. Retrieved 31 May2013.
  11. ^ Charles Carlton, Royal Mistresses (1990)
  12. ^ Denny, p. 38
  13. ^ Marie-Louise Bruce, p. 13
  14. ^ Ives, Eric William (2004). “The Life and Death of Anne Boleyn”, p. 369 (note 75). Malden, MA: Blackwell Pub.
  15. ^ Kelly, Henry Angsar: The Matrimonial Trials of Henry VIII pp42 ff
  16. ^ Weir, p. 160
  17. ^ Karen Lindsey, p. 73
  18. ^ Hart p. 118
  19. ^ Gregory, Philippa, “The Other Boleyn Girl
  20. ^ Wilkinson, Josephine (2009). Mary Boleyn: The True Story of Henry VIII’s Favourite MistressISBN 978-1-84868-089-0.

Further reading

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hidevteAnne Boleyn
FamilyThomas Boleyn, 1st Earl of Wiltshire (father)Elizabeth Boleyn, Countess of Wiltshire (mother)George Boleyn, Viscount Rochford (brother)Mary Boleyn (sister)Elizabeth I (daughter)Henry VIII of England (husband)Henry Percy, 6th Earl of Northumberland (betrothed)Lady Margaret Butler (paternal grandmother)William Boleyn (paternal grandfather)Elizabeth Tilney, Countess of Surrey (maternal grandmother)Thomas Howard, 2nd Duke of Norfolk (maternal grandfather)Elizabeth Boleyn, Lady Boleyn (aunt)Joyce Culpeper (aunt)James Boleyn (uncle)Catherine Howard (cousin)Jane Boleyn (sister-in-law)Geoffrey Boleyn (great grandfather)George Boleyn (priest)Thomas Hoo, Baron Hoo and Hastings (great great grandfather)
FilmsAnna Boleyn (1920)Anne of the Thousand Days (1969)The Other Boleyn Girl (2008)
StageAnna Bolena (1830 opera)Anne Boleyn (2010 play)
LiteratureMurder Most Royal (1949)Doomed Queen Anne (2002)
OtherCultural depictionsO Death Rock Me Asleep (poem)”With Her Head Tucked Underneath Her Arm” (1934 song)


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